Quite the opposite actually, I prefer affectionate sex rather than BDSM. And surveys show this is common, men are typically less dominant than women would prefer them to be.
Being dominant or taking the lead isnтАЩt the same as being abusive, which, I would argue, is whatтАЩs being described in this article and in these comments. Men can justify these behaviors all they want, but they are all porn watchers who assume these things are normal. The fact is that human beings donтАЩt want to be abused unless they themselves have been abused or have been exposed to abuse via porn. Healthy, grounded women with a strong sense of self would never accept this kind of behavior.
You wish that this were true because then it would justify your preferences and behavior, and for men it may be true. For women, it is not.
Quite the opposite actually, I prefer affectionate sex rather than BDSM. And surveys show this is common, men are typically less dominant than women would prefer them to be.
Being dominant or taking the lead isnтАЩt the same as being abusive, which, I would argue, is whatтАЩs being described in this article and in these comments. Men can justify these behaviors all they want, but they are all porn watchers who assume these things are normal. The fact is that human beings donтАЩt want to be abused unless they themselves have been abused or have been exposed to abuse via porn. Healthy, grounded women with a strong sense of self would never accept this kind of behavior.