Quite the opposite actually, I prefer affectionate sex rather than BDSM. And surveys show this is common, men are typically less dominant than women would prefer them to be.
Quite the opposite actually, I prefer affectionate sex rather than BDSM. And surveys show this is common, men are typically less dominant than women would prefer them to be.
Being dominant or taking the lead isn’t the same as being abusive, which, I would argue, is what’s being described in this article and in these comments. Men can justify these behaviors all they want, but they are all porn watchers who assume these things are normal. The fact is that human beings don’t want to be abused unless they themselves have been abused or have been exposed to abuse via porn. Healthy, grounded women with a strong sense of self would never accept this kind of behavior.
Quite the opposite actually, I prefer affectionate sex rather than BDSM. And surveys show this is common, men are typically less dominant than women would prefer them to be.
Being dominant or taking the lead isn’t the same as being abusive, which, I would argue, is what’s being described in this article and in these comments. Men can justify these behaviors all they want, but they are all porn watchers who assume these things are normal. The fact is that human beings don’t want to be abused unless they themselves have been abused or have been exposed to abuse via porn. Healthy, grounded women with a strong sense of self would never accept this kind of behavior.