Erotic Emotions (updated)

Survey results, n=436,000 cis people

Aella

Mar 17, 2023

Since my kink survey exploded (currently n=463,196, only measuring cis people for this one), more data came in, and I updated the graph with a bigger sample.

I also used only percentage of people who marked any interest, and didn’t include the “did they also mark the thing as the thing they’re most interested in”, which I did include in the last version.

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Anonymous Dude

Mar 23

So everyone likes to be desired and to fall in love, but the ladies like to be safe (makes sense given the risk) and powerless and for the guy to be primal and smug (but they really don't like it when the guy's powerless), whereas the guys like to be safe and primal but less than half are actually into power play.

You know, Aella, I think they're not after you because you're Not an Official Researcher. I think they're after you because you say all the stuff they've been lying to us about for years. And you've got a sample of hundreds of thousands.

The emperor has no clothes. I hope you keep roasting sacred cows. I like steak.

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kryptogal

Mar 17

Seems weird that 70+% of women said they're turned on by feelings of safety for themselves, yet 55% said they were aroused by feelings of vulnerability. Those seem like completely opposite feelings. There's no such thing as safe and vulnerable/powerless at the same time.

I really hate that the more I read your data, the more annoying I find women.

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